After reading this book I realized that non-traditional families are springing up all over the place, and that picturebooks are truly a wonderful medium to discuss them. When I went through my library, however, I found few books that fit the bill. One is Barefoot Book's Motherbridge of Love. Illustrated by Josée Masse, Motherbridge of Love tells the story of an adopted girl and the strength she gains from having two mothers, a birthmother and an adoptive mother. The text for the book was actually submitted anonymously to the charity Mother Bridge of Love by a woman who had recently adopted a child, and it is reprinted at the beginning of the book in Chinese, once again highlighting the bridge between the girl's Chinese birth and Western home:
Original poem in Chinese
It's a lovely example of a book that showcases a non-nuclear family and helps children see the beauty of their past.
As far as books in my personal library, Stellaluna was the only other exampleI have of a non-traditional family. When Stellaluna loses her mother to an owl attack, the baby bat survives by landing in a bird's nest below. The nest is already inhabited by a family of birds, and it is this family that gives Stellaluna a chance at a family again. The bat learns to adapt to her new surroundings and even takes on habits of the birds:
Stellaluna being fed like a bird
Again, a great example of a non-traditional family. And what makes each of these books even better is that they don't feel didactic--they're not entitled "My Friend Has Two Daddies" or "I'm the Only Bat in a Family of Birds." Instead they organically introduce the idea of a non-nuclear family as a wonderful story, not a didactic lesson.
Can anyone else speak to other picturebooks about families that aren't particularly nuclear?
Non-traditionally yours,
Mel
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